You know, this is good to know! I think part of my problem is that I assume the worst in these situations, not sure why. Or maybe I'm scared as outing myself as a "heathen" and having people judge me (which is actually a deeper, more complicated emotional problem I've had for a while). I dunno. But still, good to hear your side of things. :)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts (and also for the advocacy for more choclate)!